Your gut is right, this isn’t on a bag, or a shirt but it’s something talked about (very openly) in the company I work for. Through the process of taking myself on I was asked to write a list of what I am best in the world at and what I love to do, and from that a ‘job’ would be create itself. Sounds easy enough (turned out to be a few more crumpled up pieces of paper then I was expecting), after all I have enrolled myself in hard conversations since this whole thing started so why not have a hard one with myself? Turned out to be on of those things that’s not so easy to do on your own. So I put it out there to my friends, hoping to hear some nuggets and perspectives that were independent of what my little voice was listing. I ended up getting this incredible e-mail that put me on a long and winding path (that I’m still on), so I thought I would share it with you:
Discover What you were born to do (By James Gonyea)
You’ve been hearing that voice again, the one that says you’re not pursuing what you were born to do. That may be true, but how do you figure out what you should be doing?
To begin answering this question, examine whether your current career path matches your core interests, beliefs, values, needs and skills. Professional career counselors usually undertake this strategy when attempting to help clients identify appropriate career directions.
Here’s what I ask clients to help them find their core. Ask yourself these questions and record your answers:
1. What subjects do you most enjoy reading about?
2. What television or radio programs do you most enjoy?
3. What are your favorite types of movies?
4. What are your favorite hobbies or pastimes?
5. What type of volunteer activities do you prefer?
6. What subjects do you enjoy discussing with friends?
7. What subjects come to mind when you daydream?
8. What have been your favorite jobs?
9. What were your favorite school subjects?
10. What are your pet peeves?
11. If you doodle, what do you often draw?
12. If you ran the world, what changes would you make?
13. If you won a million bucks, what would you do with it?
14. What are your favorite kinds of people?
15. How would you like to be remembered after your death?
16. What are your favorite toys?
17. How would you describe your political beliefs?
18. Who do you most admire in life and why?
19. What tasks have brought you the most success?
20. What tasks do you think you could do well that you haven’t yet done?
Examine your answers. Do you see a certain behavior or belief in more than one aspect of your life? What information do you see repeated that seems to reveal a behavior pattern? What are your long-lasting interests?
Using this information, paint a self-portrait by completing the following statements:
* I am mainly interested in…
* I believe most in…
* I most value…
* For a good life, I feel I need…
* I can do the following well…
Now ask yourself if your current path helps you achieve these five statements. If it does, you’re probably heading in the right direction. Chances are, however, that the nagging voice means your current direction may not satisfy your core features. If this is the case, then it’s time to find a better fit.
If the right career choice is not obvious from the information you have gathered about yourself, then try reading What Color Is Your Parachute? by Richard Nelson Bolles.
What a concept? I can’t tell you what a great starting point these questions were for me. Even if your ah-ha moment doesn’t happen while doing this exercises I can assure you that it is setting you up for it.
Up Next…Your outlook on life is a direct reflection of how much you like yourself (for real this time)
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